From the beginning of our lives we are imprinted and programmed by our primary relationships, early experiences, and by the relationships we see around us. From these experiences we develop subconscious beliefs about ourselves, about men, about women, about what love is.
These beliefs color our experience throughout life and form the fabric of our relationship patterns. Every time we play out these patterns, the limiting beliefs we hold are reinforced, until we accumulate a vast store of evidence to prove that they are “reality”. We may even develop neuro-pathways which keep us addicted to the pain that these dramas bring.
Many people are aware of their dysfunctional relationship patterns, and may even know where the patterns stem from, yet the patterns and behaviors persist, and they feel stuck and powerless to break free. The reason for this is that the limiting beliefs which are generating the behaviors reside in the subconscious, not the conscious mind. So just having conscious insight, although helpful, is not always enough to create genuine and lasting change.
Using hypnosis we open the door to the subconscious mind and to get to the source of the issues. Time and time again I am amazed and inspired to see how quickly and easily change happens when limiting beliefs and old emotions and traumas are addressed and we love those parts of ourselves unconditionally.
When a relationship ends you may feel wounded, weary, traumatized or feel like a victim. Self-esteem may be diminished, and you might even see the opposite sex as the enemy. In a session you have the opportunity, if needed, to grieve the loss and to feel whatever needs to be felt.
Together we look at the underlying patterns and beliefs that had been operating in the relationship and uncover the limiting thoughts and programming which are behind it all. You have the opportunity to love all parts of yourself unconditionally. We then clear the patterns and reprogram the subconscious mind with the positive truth about you. That you are good enough, worthy and lovable and that happiness is possible for you.
You are then free to relax into your own personal power and reconnect with your inner resources, your strength and ultimately move into a place of radical forgiveness and unconditional self-love. These new positive beliefs and self-love generate a deep sense of well being and open the door to healthy loving relationships.
"There is no remedy for love but to love more."
-Henry David Thoreau
